Lately, my 7 year old has been coming to me with heavy sighs, saying pitifully,” I’m bored, I don’t know what to do.” Now, this is something new and not at all normal for her. My first instinct has been to find something for her. Today, however, I tried a little experiment. What will she do if I leave her to her boredom? I was reluctant to try this at first because idleness drives me nuts. I like everyone to be busy about something, and lying on the couch drawing breath doesn’t count.
There was a tic-tac-toe pad laying on the bar and she further played on my sympathies by noting that she couldn’t even play tic-tac-toe by herself. I told her she was so creative, I knew she could find a way!
I left her to her boredom and waited to see what would happen. A while later she came in smiling wide. She had indeed “played” tic-tac-toe by herself, turning it into a beautiful work of art!
My conclusion: Yes, she can find something to do on her own and boredom can serve as a springboard for her creativity!
What a good idea…thinking out of the box :).